Episode 13

Creating Your Best Life Algorithm: You Can't Pour from an Empty Cup

Published on: 6th August, 2026

What if the most compassionate thing you can do for someone else… is first take care of yourself?

In this episode of I Ching Mashup, Michele and Lisa reflect on something many of us struggle with the desire to help everyone around us while quietly running ourselves empty.

As we watched people in our own lives navigating grief, burnout, major life transitions, and emotional upheaval, a deeper question emerged:

How do we truly support others without carrying their burdens, enabling unhealthy patterns, or abandoning ourselves in the process?

Turning to the I Ching, we discover that the answer isn't found in doing more.

It's found in becoming more present.

The reading reminds us that patience, joy, stillness, and inner alignment aren't luxuries reserved for "when life slows down." They are the very practices that allow us to show up with authenticity, discernment, and compassion when life becomes difficult—for ourselves and for those we love.

Together, we explore:

✨ Why busyness often disconnects us from what matters most

✨ Supporting others without rescuing or enabling

✨ The difference between fixing someone's life and holding space for their growth

✨ Why patience creates wisdom that rushing never can

✨ Reclaiming joy as an inner practice rather than an external achievement

✨ Creating enough inner stability to become a calm presence in a changing world

This conversation is for anyone who feels responsible for everyone else's well-being, struggles to slow down, or wonders how to remain grounded while the people around them are facing profound change.

Because sometimes the greatest gift you can offer another person...

...is becoming someone who is deeply rooted in your own peace.

We are grateful you joined us!

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About the Podcast

I Ching Mashup with Michele and Lisa
Conversations on Space, Timing & Transformation
Join Michele and Lisa as they explore the timeless teachings of the I Ching — the ancient Book of Changes — and mash them up with real life, real questions, and the collective shifts we’re all navigating together.
Through honest dialogue, intuitive reflection, Feng Shui principles, spiritual inquiry, and everyday experiences, each episode becomes a living exploration of transformation, alignment, resilience, and conscious evolution.
This is not fortune telling.
It’s a conversation with change itself.
New conversations and collective readings released throughout the year.
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Lisa Alban

Lisa Alban is a best-selling author, Board Chair of the International Feng Shui Guild, and founder of Cloud 9 Feng Shui. As a modern Feng Shui authority and energetic architect, she integrates spatial strategy, environmental psychology, and intuitive diagnostics to support conscious leaders and refined homes.

Her work bridges structure and intuition—showing that space is not aesthetic decoration, but a living system that shapes identity, clarity, and legacy.

Through design, dowsing, and governance-level leadership in the field, Lisa elevates Feng Shui beyond lifestyle trends into strategic transformation.